| Skill | 
Power | 
Value | 
Purpose | 
Brain Smart Tips | 
Emotional Development | 
Key Phrases | 
Composure Being the person you want your children to become | 
Perception No one can make you angry | 
Integrity | 
Remain calm and teach children how to behave. | 
The brain functions optimally in a safe environment. | 
Anger management is integral for social competence. | 
S – Smile T – Take a breath A – And R – Relax | 
Encouragement Building the school family | 
Unity We are all in this together | 
Interdependence | 
Create a sense of belonging. | 
Social successes prime the brain for academic successes. | 
Relationships are the motivation for learning. | 
You did it! You _____ so _____ That was helpful. | 
Assertiveness Setting limits respectfully | 
Attention What you focus on, you get more of | 
Respect | 
Set limits and expectations. | 
Telling children what to do aligns their bodies with their willpower. | 
Healthy boundaries are essential for all relationships. | 
Did you like it? | 
Choices Building self-esteem and willpower | 
Free Will The only person you can make change is yourself | 
Empowerment | 
Empowers children while setting limits. | 
Choice changes brain chemistry. | 
Building self-esteem and willpower reduces impulsivity. | 
You may _____ or _____. What is your choice? | 
Positive Intent Creating teaching moments | 
Love See the best in others | 
Diversity | 
Create teachable moments especially for difficult children. | 
Thoughts physically alter cells in the body. | 
Positive intent improves self-image and builds trust. | 
You wanted _____. You may not _____. When you want _____ _____, say _____. | 
Empathy Handling fussing and fits | 
Acceptance The moment is as it is | 
Compassion | 
Help children accept & process feelings. | 
Empathy wires the brain for self-control and higher cognition. | 
Empathy is the heart of emotional intelligence. | 
You seem _____. Something _____ must have happened. | 
Consequences Helping children learn from their mistakes | 
Intention Mistakes are opportunities to learn | 
Responsibility | 
Help children reflect on their choices and change. | 
The brain thrives on feedback. | 
Consequences help children learn cause & effect relationships. | 
If you choose to _____ then you will _____. |